humans tend to make relationships all their life....when we r born we r already into some n some we create for ourselves...actually its important also..humans are social animals after all.
wen we r born we r already a son or a daughter...maybe a sister or a bro....n so many relations come altogether...
as we grow up we make frnds..they become a part of ur lives,part of our own being..losing thm is like losing a part of ourself.
we even fall in love with a person ...(i hav never been able to understand y it's called "falling" in love)...maybe love is classified as some deep dark pit or something....whatever
this love is very much different from other kind of love coz' every relationship has the ingredient,major ingredient of love in it.
true love,when u meet a person....n the person becomes such a part of ur life..tht u realize at a point tht life wud b so imcomplete,so boring,so lifeless without that person...n once we achieve that person,rather realize tht the other person has fallen for us too,its like....the ultimate dream n nt all r lucky enough to hav ths dream fuliflled...
but mayit be any relationship,it needs compatibility,it needs to be handled with utmost care,coz a relationship,especially the one u want to last for ur life is very very gentle.......very very mild....
blows like fights,jealousy,possessiveness,obsessiveness,misunderstandings,not providing enough space to the person,dominating urself,mistrust,lack of respect for the other person........
these blows can break the gentle relationships,destroy thm......something tht u wont b able to get back in any other facet ever again in ur life.
thus,when u decide to get into a relationship or if u r already into one......supply it with as much love as possible......loveforms kinda coating n can resist the hardest blows of life.......
fall in love,its beautiful........
but fall for the person.....who makes ur life beautiful......
2 comments:
there are no words for me to express for both the article as well as the author... too cute article... full of feelings......
thanks....
Well yaar I completely agree with ur opinion that no matter whatever it takes we hav to give our 100% to those relationship with wch we r born but when it cums to frenship n love i think that its better to avoid such relation which u know can harm u later sumtine...
But if only talking about love then i will say ki "love is loving imperfect person perfectly" and what i feel is ki pyar bahut baar hota but true love, it happens just once n rest is life...
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